Our Relationship Impact Online Coaching Process
My 15-week relationship online coaching process that will take your relationship to GREAT!
Make your relationship your GREATEST adventure!
Creating an interdependent relationship.
Transforming your relationship isn't as simple as learning new communication skills or rescheduling your time priorities. The Life Impact processes focuses on your goals and the personal growth of each partner. It takes two emotionally healthy people to make a healthy relationship, a healthy marriage.
The Relationship Impact Online coaching process is built on the idea of an interdependent model of marriage rather than a dependent/dependent relationship. One of the primary tenets of an interdependent relationship is that couples are responsible to each other instead of being responsible for each other.
Steps to creating a sustainable change in your relationship.
Developing purposeful endurance, requires a commitment to the process more than the goal. Reaching a goal without going through a process becomes difficult to sustain the goal.
A separated couple gets back together (the goal) without any changes on either person's part. They crash on the shore of disappointment.
You receive or win a large sum of money and pay off your debt (the goal), and soon you find that you are back in debt.
There was no process.
It's the process that makes you the person to sustain the goal. You can see why the process is just as necessary, if not more so than the goal.
Learn how to hold on to yourself in times of conflict.
An excellent way to think of your relationship, your marriage, is like a three-legged stool. One leg represents one spouse, and the other represents the second spouse. The third leg of the stool represents marriage.
Most relationship/marriage counseling focuses on the marriage leg; this is why most couples get frustrated and give up on the process.
In the Relationship Impact Online coaching process, we focus on the individual's growth, and then we will focus on the relationship. If all three of the legs are not equal, like the stool, the relationship is out of balance.
"The Relationship Impact process has been an incredible blessing to us. We were given great insight on how we can choose to fall in love with our spouse, not just once, but every single day. It's a choice! Dr. McCray's wisdom was so insightful, but at the same time practical and I was able to apply what I was learning into my marriage. I have learned to honor my spouses vulnerability, to risk stepping into "unknown" territory which as Dr. McCray said it leads to a "radical" marriage! As I trusted the process, I allowed my mind to create new experiences with my spouse, which led to healing from an old mindset. I believe whatever you invest in will grow & this is a priceless investment in your relationship that will not give you something better, but something completely radical & NEW! I am forever transformed! "
- Judy
Make your relationship your GREATEST adventure!
Begin THRIVING in your relationship instead of just surviving! You CAN have the relationship you've always wanted, but didn't know how to get!
